Episode 28 "Rules of Engagement"
AMAZING LIVING WITH DAWN & LUCKY – EPISODE 027 “Rules of Engagement” INTRODUCTION Brought to you by Our Amazing Supporters at Patreon.com/AmazingLiving! And our ASSOCIATE PRODUCER! Nancy and Ted Bowling! WooHOO! SPECIAL thanks to LAURIE ROTH! “The promoter and enforcer of all things amazing!” Thank you for your support and encouragement to our mission! A Knight’s Tale Austin Powers Trilogy Swimming with sharks Deadly No-Seems Boat work Amazing Discussions and Running out of Money Flying Past Where Most People STOP WHY PEOPLE DON’T ACHIEVE THEIR AMAZING LIFE 1) NO CLEAR DEFINITION OF WHAT AN AMAZING LIFE IS. Get specific! Where is my bliss? 2) NO CLEAR DIRECTION How to get direction: Hire us! Find/Hire someone who is SUCCESSFUL on the path you want to be on
People are great at dreaming, poor at implementing
3) NOT HAVING A STRONG ENOUGH WHY
Why WHY Trumps WHAT or even HOW
Why finding the “Easy Way” ISN’T the Easy Way
The Solid Valid reason for WHY
We Didn’t Think it through when we Started Podcasting
WHY keeps you going, when you don’t want to
4) NOT TAKING IMMEDIATE ACTION AFTER INSPIRATION
Self Perpetuating LOOP: Potential, Action, Results, Belief.
5) CAVING IN TO RESISTANCE WHEN (NOT IF) IT COMES
Moving Toward Dreams moves you AWAY from something
Discomfort Comes in Many Ways
What Happens when People PAY us
Resistance is There to Bring Out your BEST
What Happens When you Have a Spouse on (or off) your TEAM
The Bigger the Dream, the Bigger the Resistance
Turning the Tide: The Swimming Pool Analogy
Why Baby Steps DON’T Work
Warren Buffet’s Secret to Success
How Are You Treating Your DREAM?
Making Choices Out of Fear Versus Inspiration
6) REACTING INSTEAD OF RESPONDING
Reactions come from Fear
To Evaluate: Finding the Value in Uncomfortable Situations
What is the Value of our Situation?
What Value do You Find in the Place You’re In?
Taking Time to Evaluate and Respond Many Times Produces a Solution
7) RUNNING BACK TOWARD WHAT IS FAMILIAR
Navigating the Resistance and Discomfort of Change
Knowing Your “Why”
8) KNOWING EVERYTHING BEFORE YOU TAKE YOUR FIRST STEP
Becoming an Overnight Success
The Discomfort and Learning Curve
How to Find a Great Sailboat at a Massive Discount
Why You Should Sail No Less than ONE YEAR
9) GIVING UP TOO SOON
You MUST Be Developed
You’re Being Groomed and Developed
We Decide the Value of Everything
Challenges come in levels, to Develop and Grow You
The Young Man Who Fell Down All The Time
Maturity Comes from Getting Up
10) NOT UNDERSTANDING OUR WORD IS LAW
We Get Good At What We Practice and Declare
Why The Universe Never Gives you What You Want
Positive Statements
CONCLUSION:
Turning the Reasons for Failure into Rules of Engagement
1) Have a CLEAR DEFINITION of What it is you Want
2) Have a CLEAR DIRECTION of Where You Want to Go
3) Have a STRONG ENOUGH WHY
4) MOVE YOUR FEET When You Get Excited
5) EXPECT AND EVALUATE THE RESISTANCE that comes
6) UNDERSTAND THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN RESPONDING AND REACTING
7) DECIDE NOT TO GO BACK TO FAMILARITY
8) GO WITH THE FLOW
9) NEVER GIVE UP
10) UNDERSTAND YOUR WORD IS LAW
CLOSING MUSIC
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